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Spiritual Friendship

Friday, 24 September 2021 to Friday, 1 October 2021

"The Enlightenment experience is not self-contained in a one-sided way. The Enlightenment experience contains an element of communication, and contains, therefore, an element of spiritual friendship, even transcendental friendship, of friendship of the highest conceivable level."
Sangharakshita

Spiritual friendship is not an added-on part of Going for Refuge, nor is it the Buddhist equivalent to having some mates - rather it is of the essence of the spiritual life and a vital means of communication, emotional development, and meaning - not to mention challenge and enjoyment. But how do we do it and what does it look like? By putting spiritual friendship at the heart of our dharma lives we uncover the riches of the Three Jewels and enter into communication that will transform our lives. There will be talks exploring friendship with our teachers, with peers, and with friends as well as 'friendship life stories' in the groups.

There will be talks given during the retreat which will provide the material for the study groups. Suggested reading beforehand is from "Essential Sangharakshita" on the section on "Friends and Teachers", pp 485 - 557.

Details and Timings

The retreat starts with dinner on the first day at 6:30pm and finishes on the final day at 10.00am.

Health and Hygiene

It is vital that you don't come on retreat if you have any symptoms of Covid-19, including a cough, loss or change of smell or taste, a temperature, or any other cold or flu-like symptoms; or if you have been in contact with anyone who has within the past 14 days.

We ask that you take two Lateral Flow Test, one 48 hours before arrival and a second within 24 hours of the retreat starting.
If you haven't taken one by the time you arrive at Padmaloka, we will ask you to do one upon arrival and you will have to wait for the result before entering the buildings.
You can order them free from the UK Government here: Lateral Flow Tests, or from most pharmacies.

In coming on retreat you agree to observe measures laid out in our coming on retreat page here: Coming on Retreat

We will be taking every measure we can to prevent the spreading of Covid-19 during retreats, but despite this, there will still remain a risk to those who attend; please consider this when coming on retreat.

A Dana Retreat

After the deposit, there will be a dana appeal at the end of the retreat where you will have the opportunity to support Padmaloka with a donation.

People often want to donate a similar amount to the retreat rates used in the past on a week-long retreat, the amounts are as follows:
• Waged: £369
• Concession: £321
• Unwaged: £264

These retreats will have higher running costs than ordinary retreats due to the restricted number of attendees, as well as the extra hygiene precautions we are taking to ensure the safety of all those involved; so we ask that you give as generously as you can to support Padmaloka through the Covid-19 pandemic.

There will be an opportunity to donate near the end of the retreat, or you can do so any time online, but please note that by law we are unable to refund donations once they have been given.

Led By: 
Ordination Team
Retreat Open To: 
Men training for ordination and Dharmacharis in UK and Europe
Retreat Type: 
Going for Refuge Retreat
Booking Availability: 
Spaces - retreat nearly full
£35.00
GBP